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The Concept of Friendship

The idea of Friendship at this point in my life is so different as compared to many years ago, I've fallen out with a few good friends that I no longer bother to rekindle, but of course nobody tells their once good friends that we don't enjoy hanging out with them now so there's still the courtesy hang out once in a blue moon.  I no longer have the energy to invest in friendship that require me to keep giving a lot of my time and energy. That is truly a test, because some people just walk away when they no longer stay as the centre of attention in your life, when you no longer bend backwards for them, they just walk away.  It's okay, just want to tell myself it's okay. I have my amazing family and husband, so blessed, perhaps God is watching after me, taking away all these stressors from my life so I can focus and see what's truly good and people who are truly there despite ups and downs. 

A letter to my future self

Hi Future Sue,  How's life? How's life after crossing the big 30 mark? Is it scary, do you have more than 1 kid now? Do you have the career you're proud of now? Are you still married? Happy?  The 29 year old me is writing this to you, gave birth to Oliver about 6 months ago and I am madly in love with him. My MIL drives me crazy every now and then but happy to have her around to help watch the little guy when I come to ACL for work, my mom drives me nuts a bit too but she helps out with Oliver whenever I need to take a little break away, just came back from Singapore after attending Connie's ROM actually.  Are you still breastfeeding the kids? Still using that same Spectra pump I bought in 2017? Or have you successfully overcome the nipple problem and now is being a full time nursing mom? How many kids you have btw? Your concern about not having enough space for the kids, is it still a concern now? Or have you already moved into the Batu Kawan house? Does S...